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Not just for the gulls

February 22, 2011

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“Thus the writer who has been moved by the sight of the first crocus in Kensington Gardens has, before he sets pen to paper, to choose from a crowd of competitors the particular patron who suits him best. It is futile to say, “Dismiss them all; think only of your crocus,” because writing is a […]

Conflicting demands

February 14, 2011

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I like who I am. Today I spent a large part of my day doing consultancy work, and tonight I had to advise a different group to the one I’d worked with all day. I was busy. I like being a dom. I like being a flirt. I like my sex life. All very obvious, […]

Why do guys beg to have their wives exposed online?

February 13, 2011

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So I’m in a chatroom, This guy wants his wife exposed online. Now, it’s one of my fetishes that I like these sorts of games. Usually I play them with women. There are friends of mine who adore being shown off, with the added frisson of the risk of being identified. Chrissy for instance.   […]

An experiment

February 12, 2011

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Understanding my sadism, or why 24/7 is a vulgar fraction

February 12, 2011

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“The pleasure in complete domination over another person (or other animate creature) is the very essence of the sadistic drive. Another way of formulating the same thought is to say that the aim of sadism is to transform man into a thing, something animate into something inanimate, since by complete and absolute control the living […]

Laughter, the best…

February 10, 2011

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I’ve blogged before about the four rules that shape my relationship with the significant submissive. Our relationship started because, amongst the sixty or seventy men and women wanking over her in a chatroom as she wanked on cam, I was the one making her laugh. We make each other laugh repeatedly and regularly. I even […]

A song for the significant sub.

February 9, 2011

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Yes, you’ll have to go and read her blog to get the joke.

Favourite toys

February 8, 2011

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I had to explain something to the significant submissive today. I have favourite toys, and preferences. Here’s a favourite toy. Now, I could happily use her that way every time we meet. But that’s not what I want to do. I want to explore, to challenge and to find new ways of being us within […]

Jung hearts, run free…

February 7, 2011

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According to Jung, who I am reading again at the moment, women desire completeness while men desire perfection. I don’t think he’s entirely right in terms of gender, but the idea of perfection and completeness being mutually exclusive is clearly recognisable. Oh, and apologies for the title…

What’s in the pages

February 6, 2011

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The pages that appear in the sidebar menu are mainly going to be used for erotica I’ve already written…   Enjoy….