I used to be a barman. One of our customers was a dysfunctional drunk. Not an amiable drunk, or a binge drinking drunk, but a dysfunctional no use to neither man nor beast drunk. He was also a talented artist, and philosophically inclined. One day I asked him about his disastrous, drunkard lifestyle. He looked […]
February 22, 2011
“Thus the writer who has been moved by the sight of the first crocus in Kensington Gardens has, before he sets pen to paper, to choose from a crowd of competitors the particular patron who suits him best. It is futile to say, “Dismiss them all; think only of your crocus,” because writing is a […]
February 16, 2011
I enjoy my day time work – I’m by turn consultant, teacher, guide and advisor. It’s time consuming work – I have to shape my domestic arrangements around irregular hours and a congested diary. My social and sex life lingers even further behind that. I work hard not to make myself sound like a victim. […]
February 14, 2011
I like who I am. Today I spent a large part of my day doing consultancy work, and tonight I had to advise a different group to the one I’d worked with all day. I was busy. I like being a dom. I like being a flirt. I like my sex life. All very obvious, […]
February 13, 2011
As I get time I’m moving stories from other hosts to here. It gives me a chance to think about how I group stories, and explore what they tell me about the voices I deploy. It’s not just in fiction that we deploy voices of course. We do it in everyday life. If I’m writing […]
February 13, 2011
So I’m in a chatroom, This guy wants his wife exposed online. Now, it’s one of my fetishes that I like these sorts of games. Usually I play them with women. There are friends of mine who adore being shown off, with the added frisson of the risk of being identified. Chrissy for instance. […]
February 12, 2011
“The pleasure in complete domination over another person (or other animate creature) is the very essence of the sadistic drive. Another way of formulating the same thought is to say that the aim of sadism is to transform man into a thing, something animate into something inanimate, since by complete and absolute control the living […]
February 10, 2011
I’ve blogged before about the four rules that shape my relationship with the significant submissive. Our relationship started because, amongst the sixty or seventy men and women wanking over her in a chatroom as she wanked on cam, I was the one making her laugh. We make each other laugh repeatedly and regularly. I even […]
February 9, 2011
Yes, you’ll have to go and read her blog to get the joke.
February 23, 2011
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